Friday, May 20, 2005

Adam's Bond

I guess no one feels the pain as much as a mother when she is told her child has a disability, but when your child and no matter how old they are, they are always a child to a mother goes to jail you are suddenly finding yourself crying at the most inopportune times.

Adams bond was originally $500,000 which I find confusing. Does anyone understand the way a bond is set? I know, I don't. The judge reduced it to $18,000 but needing $1800 cash and $18,000 in collaterol...well the judge may as well have left it at $500,000.

My son has been charged with 2 counts felonies that we know he will be exonerated or found not guilty of. You see, I am a snoop and I found letters in his room he wrote telling Sarah she knows the truth about what happened and that he has lied to protect her because he loves her.

She on the other hand has moved on ratherly quickly to someone else that can pay her rent and she nicely left him with a cell phone bill of over $400 and refuses to let him or us or whomever pick up his washer, dryer and other things he paid for. The sale of the washer and dryer and furniture he bought would at least help pay his phone bill.

While he took care of the baby that he is accused of hurting by providing her food, diapers, a heater when the house heater went out and her mother refused to call the landlord, all she cared about was herself.

My son took care of that child while mom went running around with friends, got her nails done and has never shed a tear over the authorities taking this child. Neither did she go to counseling classes as instructed or anything else they told her to do.

Adam begged to go to counseling, he begged to see this child and he became more and more withdrawn. He talked about how much he took care of her when her mother wouldn't, how much he missed her and loves her like his own.

While he did lie to the detectives about what happened and to be honest with anyone, I don't know the true story as both Adam and Sarah lied, the difference is, Adam talked to the police and lied to keep Sarah out of trouble. On the other hand, Sarah got a court appointed attorney to help her and hasn't talked to the detective except once.

While Sarah was doing what she wanted to, Adam was being told he is simply guilty because he is the boyfriend. So, this is how justice is served?

I sent out over fifty letters begging for someone to take his case on Pro Bono (that means free), but no one will. After all, child abuse is a nasty subject and no one wants to help the poor Autistic kid who hurt a child.

I wish if anyone reads this, they would understand Adam pukes when he has to kill a bug, he has taken care of nieces and nephews in the past and never hurt any of them, why would he start now?

Which brings me to his $18,000 bond and someone else is jail with the same charges plus added drug charges has a $5000 bond. Explain this to me? My son has never been in trouble, is not a flight risk and he can't come home & yet some repeat offender with a drug habit can get a slap on the hand for the same thing.

I am tired and need to go to bed. To much on my mind!

2 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lady, you sound mentally ill. All this Jesus stuff. I reakon your son is disabled because YOU are mentally unfit.

I have no doubt. You are not getting the picture of the legal system. Why would anybody care about your son? Why should they? You get what u get in this life.

4:59 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Anonymous- your are a cruel and uneducated fool. How dare you say such a thing to this lady. You are a creep. Do you know anything about Autism? There are plenty of people who care about her son- or why else would we read these blogs. And you I believe, will get what you deserve for your small minded beliefs and arrogant statements.


Keep it up Adams mum- you are a wonderful persona and your story touches my heart.

7:23 PM  

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